As we all know, long term relationships can get dull and everything can become a routine even the sex.
Life itself can become a routine if you let it. Sometimes it's because of your work schedules or just finding time in between raising the kids. I would like to offer a few tips that you can try to keep things interesting and to spice up your love life. I wouldn't suggest trying these things on someone you just met 2 weeks ago.....NOOOOOO! The first thing I would recommend is try having sex anywhere else other than the bedroom. Try having sex in the kitchen, the tub/shower, in the car on date night at the drive-in.
Sometimes a change is scenery is all you need to get the fire going again. #2 Take a trip to your local sex store together, explore all of the wonderful gidgets and gadgets they have from sex games, vibrators, cock rings, lubs&oils, sex swings, movies, whips and chains. You are bound to find something you both can enjoy. Toys are always fun. Now this is something I can't wait to try.....#3 take a few pole dancing classes. Invest in a portable pole to put up in your bedroom and give your man his own private show. #4 Wear some lingerie especially if you wear the same old pajamas every night or even if you sleep nude every night. Just doing something out of the ordinary will add excitement. #5 Watch a porno together or better yet create your own. (Recorded or not) Becoming the porn star gives you the opportunity to become the slut or freak you always wanted to be. It's your chance to let your inner freak out. #6 If you have a man that travels or if he works a lot, randomly sending him nude pics is a way to keep him sexually turned on. #7 Another way to get his dick hard is to one day while you are at dinner or lunch excuse yourself from the table to go to the restroom. While your in there, remove your panties and place them balled up in your hand. Once you return to the table, whisper in his ear "I don't have on any panties". At the same time place the panties in his hand. I guarantee he will be ready to eat you right then & there lol. I'm a big fan of wake up sex. It's the best way to start your day, it's better than coffee. #8 When you wake up in the morning or while you're getting ready for work, just start giving him some head. Let him know that's all you want to do is to give him head and that's it. He will be at work thinking about you all day. #9 Hot body sundae. Bring food into the bedroom or rent a hotel room. Whip cream, chocolate whipped cream, strawberries, fudge syrup, pineapples, and cherries. Licking, eating, and sucking these delicious toppings off of your significant others body will not only taste good but feel amazing. #10 Romantic Sex. Light some scented candles in the room and turn on some soft slow music. This will set the mood and might cause you to make a baby on this night. Last for now but not least. #11 Go to a swinger's club together. Not necessary to have sex with other people, unless that's what you are into, but to watch other people have sex. It's like watching a 3D flick up close and personel. They have private rooms just incase you are uncomfortable with having sex in front of others.
There are so many things a person or couple could do to bring that fire back. It's all about your limits, what you are willing to try or do. Sometimes you have to let your hair down or loosen your collar. Sex is a beautiful thing, it's an art. You can create it however you choose. The trick is to always have an open mind.
Good luck!
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